Looking for autism-friendly activities near you this month? Here's what's happening across NYC this October — theater, museums, arts and crafts, programming for teens, concerts, fairs, education for parents, and more, programmed with sensory needs and neurodivergent visitors in mind. PLenty of cool halloween-related events, too, and we’ll update this as mor events come in, so check back!
What makes an event autism-friendly or sensory-friendly? Usually some combination of dimmed but never fully dark lighting, lower or controlled sound levels, a quiet space to retreat to if things get overwhelming, staff trained in accessibility, and permission to move, vocalize, or leave and return without judgment. The specifics vary by venue — we've confirmed details for most events below, sometimes even by phone! How very old-school.
Of course, not all sensory events are appropriate for every child. But you know your child.
Autism-Friendly Events in NYC This Month
If you know of events or organizations that should be listed here, please email us at [email protected]
Sensory-Friendly Thursdays at Bluey's House — Thursdays in Oct, 3–5pm — CAMP NYC, Manhattan — Tickets
Special Education 101 (webinar series) — Thursdays, Oct 1–29, 1pm — Virtual — Register
Dyslexia Awareness Day at the SI Zoo — Sat, Oct 3, 11am–2pm — Staten Island Zoo — Tickets
Music for Autism Concert — Sat, Oct 3, 1–2pm — Brooklyn Heights Library — RSVP
Woven Wonders (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Saturdays from Oct 3, 10–11:30am — Chinatown, Manhattan — Sign up
Fall Kitchen (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Saturdays from Oct 3, 12–1:30pm — Chinatown, Manhattan — Sign up
Music & Movement (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Saturdays from Oct 3, 1:30–3pm — Chinatown, Manhattan — Sign up
Día de los Muertos — Oct 3–Nov 2, 11am–5pm — NY Botanical Garden, Bronx — Event info
When Behavior Is the Message (INCLUDEnyc) — Mon, Oct 5, 12–1pm — Virtual — Register
Sensory Storytime — Mondays, Oct 5–26, 3–4pm — Heiskell Library, Manhattan — Event info
Dungeons & Dragons Crew (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Mondays from Oct 5, 4–5:30pm — Brooklyn Heights Library — Sign up
Sensory-Friendly Zone — Tuesdays, Oct 6–27, 3:30–4:30pm — Leonard Library, Williamsburg — Event info
After School Stories — Wed, Oct 7, 4:30–5:30pm — Sunset Park Library, Brooklyn — Event info
Managing Screen Time (Tech Unlimited) — Wed, Oct 7, 5–6pm — Virtual — Register
Virtual Dungeons & Dragons Crew (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Thursdays from Oct 8, 4–6pm — Virtual — Sign up
Play & Create (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Weekly from Oct 9 (check day), 4–5:30pm — Gerritsen Beach Library, Brooklyn — Sign up
Home Accommodations for Neurodivergent Children — Fri, Oct 9, 1–2:30pm — The Greats of Craft, Midtown East — Register
BBQ for All — Fri, Oct 9, 4–9pm — Nansen Lodge, Staten Island — Tickets
Anime Crew: Shoujo (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Saturdays from Oct 10, 10:30–11:30am — Brower Park Library, Brooklyn — Sign up
Maker Girls (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Saturdays from Oct 10, 11:30am–12:30pm — Brower Park Library, Brooklyn — Sign up
Saturday Sketch Club — Sat, Oct 10 & 24, 1–4pm — Brooklyn Museum — Event info
Sunday Funday — Sundays from Oct 11, 12–3pm — Marks JCH, Bensonhurst — Event info
Sensory-Friendly Hours — Sun, Oct 11, 1–3pm — Jackie Robinson Museum, Manhattan — Tickets
Sensory-Friendly Pumpkin Picking — Sun, Oct 11, 1–3pm — IS 34, Staten Island — no link; text 347-947-5556
Read and Play (inclusive story time, ages 0–5) — Tue, Oct 13, 1–1:45pm — Flatlands Library, Brooklyn — Event info
Navigating OPWDD Funding (Gillen Brewer) — Wed, Oct 14, 12pm — Virtual — Register
Navigating Your Child's Disability: Free One-on-One Help (INCLUDEnyc) — Wed, Oct 14, 10am–1pm — By phone — Register
Virtual Gaming Crew (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Weekly from Oct 15 (check day), 4:30–6pm — Virtual — Sign up
Turning 5 Talks — Thu, Oct 15, 6:30–8:30pm — Virtual — Register
Rosie Revere, Ada Twist, and Iggy Peck (live musical) — Sat, Oct 17–25 — New Victory Theater, Times Square — Tickets
One Community, Every Ability street festival — Sat., Oct. 17, 12–3 p.m — Bed-Stuy. Register
Ride Into Inclusion — Sun, Oct 18, 9–11am — American Dream, NJ — Tickets
Special Day — Sun, Oct 18, 9:30–11am — NY Transit Museum, Brooklyn — Register
Disability Pride Parade NYC — Sun, Oct 18, 10am — Madison Square Park to Union Square — Event info
CMS Kids: Building Blocks of Music — Sun, Oct 18, 11am, 1pm & 3pm — Lincoln Center — Tickets
Special Needs Mass — Sun, Oct 18, 12:30pm — Holy Trinity, Whitestone, Queens — Event info
Music for Autism Concert — Sun, Oct 18, 1–2pm — Third Street Music School, Manhattan — Event info
Rock Band (Extreme Kids & Crew) — Sundays from Oct 18, 1:30–3:30pm — Brooklyn Conservatory of Music — Sign up
Build Your Own Video Game (Tech Unlimited) — Sun, Oct 18, 3:30–5:30pm — Virtual — Register
College Is Possible (INCLUDEnyc) — Tue, Oct 20 & 27 — Register
Tech or Treat (Tech Unlimited) — Fri, Oct 23, 4–6pm — Downtown Brooklyn — Register
Arts and Crafts with KEEN — Sat, Oct 24, 10:30–11:30am — Brooklyn Heights Library — Event info
Unmasking: A Neurodivergent Support Group (adults) — Sat, Oct 24, 2:45–4:45pm — Windsor Terrace Library, Brooklyn — Event info
Sensory Sensitive Morning: World of Darkness — Sun, Oct 25, 9–10:30am — Bronx Zoo — Event info
Maybe Happy Ending, the Tony-winning musical — Sun., Oct. 25, 1 p.m. A TDF autism-friendly performance at the Belasco Theatre in Midtown. $55–$75, ages 8+. Details
Lincoln Center Open House — Sun, Oct 25, 10:30am–6pm — Lincoln Center — Event info
Asphalt Screams (sensory hour 2:30pm) — Fri, Oct 30, 2:30–6:30pm — Asphalt Green, Upper East Side — Register
Día de los Muertos Parade — Sun, Nov 1, 2pm — NY Botanical Garden, Bronx — Event info
Event Details: Accommodations, Tickets & What to Expect
Full descriptions below are open for this issue — in the future, they'll be for subscribers (it’s free, just requires an email!)
October Events — Full Listings
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Every Thursday · October 1, 8, 15, 23, 31 · 3:00–5:00 pm
A 50-minute immersive Bluey and Bingo experience, with sensory accommodations every Thursday afternoon. A CAMP staff member — whose own son is on the spectrum and attends regularly — confirmed the following directly to Lighthouse:
Capacity capped at 12 kids, down from the normal 25, specifically to prevent overstimulation
Lighting dimmed throughout the space
Music and sound levels lowered
Sensory-friendly toys brought out specifically for these sessions
Higher staff-to-camper ratio than a standard session
Games adapted to support a range of sensory needs
The program was developed with input from occupational therapists at PlaySpace Pediatrics. Sessions draw mostly kids on the spectrum but welcome all ages, "from newborns all the way into teenagers." Indoor slides and a play kitchen are favorites, along with meet-and-greets with Bluey and Bingo — kids tend to leave reluctantly, with staff describing a fair amount of crying when it's time to go.
Not a drop-off experience — an accompanying adult is required, and everyone ages 2 and up needs a ticket, including adults. Arrive 15 minutes before your reservation time. If you need sensory accommodations, check in with a Counselor on arrival. Tickets are non-refundable but reschedulable up to 2 hours ahead for a fee — buy in advance, since Thursday sessions have been selling out.
CAMP New York City, 110 5th Ave (at 16th St), Manhattan · 14th St–Union Square (4/5/6/N/Q/R/L)
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Thursdays in October · 1:00 pm · Virtual (Zoom)
A five-part live webinar series from the law firm Littman Krooks, walking parents through the special ed process from first referral to impartial hearings. Led by attorney Arshi Pal, with education specialist Nicole Garcia joining for the advocacy session.
Oct. 1: Initial Referral & Evaluations
Oct. 8: Eligibility & Classifications
Oct. 15: Developing the IEP
Oct. 22: Strategies for Advocacy
Oct. 29: Impartial Hearings
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Free · Autism-friendly, interactive concerts for autistic individuals and their families
Music for Autism brings professionally performed music to NYC in an environment "where individual differences are celebrated and where no one will be embarrassed" — designed for families who struggle to find programming that welcomes unpredictable behaviors. All U.S. concerts are free for those with autism and their families, regardless of income.
Two dates this month:
Saturday, October 3, 1:00–2:00 pm — Samrat Majumder (classical guitarist, 2026 BBC Radio 3 New Generation Artist) at Brooklyn Heights Library, 286 Cadman Plaza West, Brooklyn. RSVP required.
Saturday, October 18, 1:00–2:00 pm — Artists from the Washington Heights Chamber Orchestra at Third Street Music School, 235 E 11th Street, Manhattan.
Prepare in advance: download a Social Story with photos from past concerts to help set expectations, plus a Caregiver's Guide on how to use social stories.
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Saturday, October 3 · 11:00 am – 2:00 pm
Bridge Preparatory Charter School partners with the Staten Island Zoo for its first-ever collaboration on a dyslexia awareness fundraiser, open to the whole community, not just Bridge Prep families. RoseMarie Illuzzi, the school's Director of Community Partnerships, confirmed the details directly to Lighthouse.
Along with general zoo access, families can visit an on-site dyslexia information station and enter raffle prizes. The event is open to all ages — Bridge Prep is a K-5 school, but alumni attend as well. The school is also working to arrange a free carousel ride for ticket-holders.
Tickets: $15 (adult) / $10 (child) — a small premium over the zoo's standard $12/$8 admission, with the difference supporting Bridge Prep. Text BPZOO to (234) 324-3332 or use the link above.
Staten Island Zoo, 614 Broadway, Staten Island, NY
Contact: RoseMarie Illuzzi, Bridge Preparatory Charter School · (718) 274-3437 ext. 904
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Saturdays, October 3 – December 5 (skip Oct 10, Oct 31) · 10:00–11:30 am · Ages 7–12 · $130–$240
A textile arts program for neurodivergent youth from Extreme Kids & Crew, exploring self-expression through embroidery, weaving, stitching, knitting, and fabric painting. Participants create wearable pieces that reflect their own ideas and identities. Offered in English and Español. Sign up for fall programs.
Oversea Chinese Mission Church, 154 Hester St, Manhattan
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Saturdays, October 3 – December 12 (skip Nov 28) · 1:30–3:00 pm · Ages 12–16 · $130–$240
Neurodivergent youth sing kid-friendly musical theater songs and explore storytelling through rhythm, sound, and movement, including character creation and stage performance. Offered in English and Mandarin. Sign up for fall programs.
Oversea Chinese Mission Church, 154 Hester St, Manhattan
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Saturdays, October 3 – December 12 (skip Oct 24, Nov 28) · 12:00–1:30 pm · Ages 9–12 · $130–$240
A culinary program for neurodivergent youth — baking, food-making, and kitchen safety, built around "building friendships" alongside cooking skills. Offered in English and Mandarin. Sign up for fall programs.
Chinese Evangel Mission Church, 31 Monroe Street, Manhattan
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October 3 – November 2 · Most activities 11 am – 5 pm
NYBG's annual Día de los Muertos celebration fills the Everett Children's Adventure Garden and grounds with vibrant marigolds and a community ofrenda honoring Mexican traditions. Programming includes hands-on workshops making papel picado and silk flowers, folk music from Son Pecadores, guided children's activities exploring the holiday's symbols, and a community altar where visitors can contribute photos or written memories. Highlights include a larger-than-life Catrina puppet by artist Lucrecia Novoa, Mexican folk dance from MAZarte Dance Company, bilingual concerts, and a Cempasúchil Dye Workshop on October 18 using traditional Aztec marigolds.
Parade: November 1 · 2 pm — live musicians, puppets, and a cumbia dance class cap the celebration.
Quiet spaces: The Garden has several quieter areas to retreat to if things get overwhelming — the Home Gardening Center next to the Enid A. Haupt Conservatory, the Native Plant Garden, and the Thain Family Forest are usually less crowded. Visitor Attendants can also direct families to a quiet space on request.
Cost: All-Garden Pass — $35 adult / $31 senior/student / $15 child (weekdays); $39 / $35 / $17 (weekends); under 2 free. NYC residents get free admission all day Wednesdays; everyone gets free entry 10–11 am Wednesdays.
Bronx River Parkway (Exit 7W) and Fordham Road, Bronx, NY 10458
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Monday, October 5 · 12:00 – 1:00 pm · Virtual · English, Spanish interpretation available
When a child falls apart at pickup, refuses to leave the playground, or shuts down the moment they walk in the door, it can feel unpredictable and impossible to read. Guest presenter Barbara Hubert, PhD, introduces a brain-and-body framework for understanding behavior as communication. Parents leave with a new way of seeing hard moments, three questions to ask in the middle of a big-feeling moment, and a take-home reference guide to common brain-body patterns behind challenging behavior.
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Mondays, ongoing (October 5, 12, 19, 26) · 3:00–4:00 pm · Free · Ages 18 months–5 years
A limited-attendance, interactive storytime with read-aloud books and activities, designed for young children who could benefit from a smaller, more structured session. Capped at 10 families. First come, first served — tickets available a half hour before the event, no registration needed.
ASL interpretation and real-time captioning (CART) available on request; submit via the library's request form or contact the branch at least two weeks in advance. nypl.org/locations/heiskell
Andrew Heiskell Braille and Talking Book Library, Community Meeting Room — fully accessible.
40 West 20th Street, New York, NY 10011 (between Fifth and Sixth Avenues, Manhattan)
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Mondays, October 5 – November 9 (skip Oct 12) · 4:00–5:30 pm · Ages 12–15 · Free
A tabletop D&D program from Extreme Kids & Crew, run in a neurodivergent-friendly environment, guided by Dungeon Master Elias Buxton. No prior D&D experience needed. Sign up for fall programs.
Brooklyn Heights Branch, Brooklyn Public Library, 286 Cadman Plaza West, Brooklyn
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Tuesdays starting October 6 · 3:30–4:30 pm · Free · No registration required
The downstairs auditorium opens weekly as a sensory-friendly space for kids who feel overwhelmed or overstimulated in the library's regular children's area. A variety of sensory stations are set up, with noise-cancelling headphones, fidget toys, and weighted items available. Developed in partnership with BPL's Inclusive Services Department.
Capped at 12 participants, and a parent or caregiver must accompany each child. Accessibility note: the building's lift is currently out of service.
Dates in October: 6, 13, 20, 27
Leonard Library, 81 Devoe St. at Leonard St., Brooklyn, NY 11211
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Wednesday, October 7 · 5:00 – 6:00 pm · Virtual · Free · Ages 14–24
A free, drop-in workshop where students explore healthy approaches to managing screen time — strategies, tradeoffs, and personal experiences balancing digital life with everything else. Runs as a supportive group discussion with games and activities, and students help decide what topics get covered. Part of Tech Unlimited's ongoing Digital Empowerment Workshop series.
Enrollment closes: October 6 at 12:00 pm ET.
370 Jay Street, Brooklyn, NY
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Wednesday, October 7 · 4:30–5:30 pm · Free · Ages 6–12, with and without disabilities
Stories, songs, a craft activity, and garden time — part of BPL's Inclusive Services programming (the same department run by Carrie Banks). Capped at 12 children; a parent or caregiver must accompany each child. ASL interpretation available with advance request.
También en español — el evento se ofrece con toda la información disponible en español ("Cuentos y artes"); contactar con anticipación para interpretación en ASL.
Contact: [email protected] or 929-678-2313
Sunset Park Library, 5108 Fourth Avenue, Brooklyn, NY 11220
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Thursdays, October 8 – December 17 · 4:00–6:00 pm · Ages 12–15 · $110–$180
An online tabletop RPG program for neurodivergent youth, no prior D&D knowledge required, led by Dungeon Master Elias Buxton. A good fit for families who can't manage an in-person commitment. Offered in English and Español. Sign up for fall programs.
Online via Zoom.
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Friday, October 9 · 1:00 – 2:30 pm
Join Highly Sensitive Design in person for practical, easy-to-implement tips on making your home comfy and supportive for neurodivergent kids — plus a chance to connect with other parents on the same journey.
Workshop leaders are Shell Li, CEO of Highly Sensitive Design, a Registered Architect (AIA) and neurodivergent mom turned advocate specializing in home renovation and interior design; Emily Schlicht, President of EMpower PT, a Physical Therapist and Board Certified Autism Specialist; and Meg Jabaily, a certified DIR/Floortime specialist.
"Together we'll explore how to identify and support our children's sensory needs at home, and leave with practical strategies parents can start using right away," Shell Li told Lighthouse. Bring your questions; coffee and tea provided.
The Greats of Craft — Midtown East, 983 1st Ave, New York, NY
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Friday, October 9 · 4:00 – 9:00 pm · Rain or shine
A relaxed, family-friendly fundraiser hosted by Special Needs Support Group Stronger Together Inc., open to parents, friends, neighbors, and educators who believe in inclusion and support for all abilities. Expect barbecue, music, and a chance to connect with other families.
Note: this event was originally scheduled for September 27 and has been rescheduled to October 9.
Cost: $30 (ages 3–12) / $45 (ages 13+) / free (under 3). Tickets are final sale — no refunds.
Nansen Lodge, 3465 Victory Blvd, Staten Island, NY
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Thursdays, October 9 – December 11 (skip Nov 26) · 4:00–5:30 pm · Ages 5–12 · Free
A multi-sensory program combining building, art, and sensory play for neurodivergent youth — Lego construction and texture exploration built around social-skills development. Offered in English and Español. Sign up for fall programs.
Gerritsen Beach Branch, Brooklyn Public Library, 2808 Gerritsen Ave, Brooklyn
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Saturdays, October 10 & 24 · 1–4 pm · Free with Museum admission (children are free; $20 is suggested amount for adults — visitors can pay what they can at the Admissions Desk) · Drop-in, no registration, all ages
Draw inspiration from works on view in Breaking the Mold: Brooklyn Museum at 200. In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, these sessions focus on artifacts from Peru and Mexico.
Asked about accommodations, a Brooklyn Museum staff member told Lighthouse: "when we make our lesson plans, we always have something that will be accommodating different kinds of learners... it's usually that we're doing something very simple, handmade for drawing. So pencils, colored pencils, and markers, and so it's very like simple hands-on drawing. It's nothing too intricate, but we always have something a little bit more simplified for those who are not able to do whatever it wants to make."
The Museum also offers sign language interpretation on request via [email protected]. Children must be accompanied by an adult at all times.
Held in the Decorative Arts and Design Galleries, 4th Floor — open galleries, not the special exhibits, so it's a fully accessible space.
Brooklyn Museum, 200 Eastern Parkway, Brooklyn
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Saturdays, October 10 – December 19 (skip Nov 28) · 10:30–11:30 am · Ages 9–12 · Free
Neurodivergent youth explore the shoujo anime sub-genre — designing characters and storyboards, creating short mangas. All materials provided. Offered in English and Español. Sign up for fall programs.
Brower Park Branch, Brooklyn Public Library, 155 Brooklyn Ave, Brooklyn
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Saturdays, October 10 – December 19 (skip Nov 28) · 11:30 am–12:30 pm · Ages 7–13 · Free
A program for girls with disabilities to build confidence and explore arts and science through projects, play, and games, with an emphasis on building friendships. Offered in English and Español. Sign up for fall programs.
Brower Park Branch, Brooklyn Public Library, 155 Brooklyn Ave, Brooklyn
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Saturday, October 10 · 1:00–2:00 pm
A sensory-friendly craft hour run by Colorful Minds, a group of Brooklyn Tech high school students, with Brooklyn Public Library's Inclusive Services team. Kids "get creative with a fun craft with lots of textures to explore," and all materials are provided. The library describes the session as "neurodivergent friendly," open to "children with and without disabilities."
Sensory-friendly: a hands-on, texture-based craft in a library meeting room.
Scent-free: the library asks guests not to wear perfume, cologne, or scented products.
Languages: staff speak English, Mandarin, and Spanish.
Accessible event: the library lists it as accessible. Call ahead with specific needs.
Cost: Free. Registration is recommended but not required. Call 929-549-0814 or email [email protected].
Rugby Library, 1000 Utica Ave, Brooklyn · Meeting Room
Sunday, October 11 · 1:00–3:00 pm (also Sunday, December 13, same time)
Sensory-friendly hours at the Jackie Robinson Museum, designed for neurodivergent visitors of all ages — youth, teens, and adults. Limited general admission keeps crowds down, gallery audio is reduced or silenced, and a dedicated quiet zone is available throughout. Depending on the date, offerings may include guided tours, picture book readings, or tactile learning activities.
The museum also maintains KultureCity sensory resources at all times, not just during these hours.
Not a drop-off program — mostly self-guided, and all children/youth must be accompanied by an adult. A Social Narrative PDF is available in advance to help prepare visitors for what to expect in the galleries.
Tickets: $18 adults / $15 youth, seniors, college students / $15 visitors with disabilities (care partner free) — included with regular admission, free for museum members. Groups of 10+ get $1 off; email at least two weeks ahead for enhanced accommodation requests.
One Hudson Square Building, 75 Varick St, New York, NY 10013
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5th Annual Sensory-Friendly Pumpkin Picking Event
Sunday, October 11 · 1:00–3:00 pm · Free — rain date the following Sunday
Now in its fifth year, this sensory-friendly fall event returns with bouncy houses, carnival games, and dedicated sensory stations. Hosted by TheraKidz Playhouse (Occupational Therapy), the NYPD Community Affairs Bureau, and With Arms Wide Open.
Pumpkins donated by Ariemma's Garden Center; music by E Squared Productions; videography by Island Entertainment.
IS34, 528 Academy Avenue, Staten Island, NY 10307
Editor’s note: There was no registration link for this, we found it on Facebook. Lighthouse reached out to TheraKidz Playhouse's contact (347-947-5556, text only) and have not heard back. Confirm details before showing up!
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Sundays, October 11 – December 20 · 12:00–3:00 pm · 10 sessions · Registration assessment required
A weekly enrichment program for children ages 5–11 with an autism diagnosis, split into three hour-long blocks: Social Skills (emotional regulation, communication, group play), Creative STEM & Makers (hands-on building, art, and fine-motor projects), and Active Play & Movement (sports, dance, coordination, and confidence-building).
One NYC mother, whose son has attended for three years, described the program's director and staff as "caring, patient, knowledgeable" and said she completely trusts her son in their care.
Sessions: October 11, 18, 25; November 1, 8, 15, 22, 29; December 13, 20
Fees: $370 for JCH members / $475 for non-members
7802 Bay Parkway, Brooklyn, NY 11214
Contact: Alexandra Levitsky · 718.331.6800 ext. 210 · [email protected]
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Tuesday, October 13 · 1:00–1:45 pm · Birth to age 5
An inclusive story time where "children birth to age 5 with and without disabilities" share stories, play together, and make friends. It's short, 45 minutes, which suits little ones who can't sit long.
For all kids: built for children with and without disabilities, side by side.
ASL: "ASL Interpretation available upon advanced request." Ask a few days ahead.
Cost: Free.
Flatlands Library, 2065 Flatbush Ave at Ave P, Brooklyn
Wednesday, October 14 · 12:00 pm · Virtual (Zoom) · Free
Gillen Brewer School invites families to a free webinar led by Cayle White, Special Needs Benefits and Services Coordinator at Skyer Law. The session breaks down OPWDD eligibility requirements, application processes, and available services into clear, actionable guidance — whether you're just getting started or looking to better understand your options.
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Wednesday, October 14 · 10:00 am–1:00 pm · By phone
Book a free, private phone call with Ruth DiRoma of INCLUDEnyc, a longtime guide for NYC families in special education. Bring your questions on:
the IEP process, 504 plans, busing, early childhood services, planning for life after high school, finding help in your community
One-on-one: a private call, not a group webinar.
Languages: English and Spanish.
Appointment required: times fill up, so book early.
Cost: Free. To book, call 929-549-0814 or email [email protected].
Hosted by Brooklyn Public Library's Inclusive Services, through Flatlands Library.
Wednesdays, October 15 – December 10 · 4:30–6:00 pm · Ages 8–16 · $95–$110
Online gaming program for neurodivergent youth, playing Roblox, Minecraft, Nintendo titles, and Fortnite in both exploratory and competitive formats. Offered in English and Spanish. Sign up for fall programs.
Online via Zoom
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Thursday, October 15 · 6:30 – 8:30 pm · Virtual (Zoom) · Free
"Parents often assume the Turning Five/Kindergarten IEP process will be similar to CPSE, both in evaluation and available services," said Sarah Birnbaum of NY Special Needs Support.
It isn't.
For parents of preschoolers currently receiving special education services or therapy — specifically kids born in 2022 — this session covers how to advocate for an appropriate kindergarten placement through the Turning Five process.
This is the second installment of an event hosted by Birnbaum and attorney Greg Cangiano of Skyer Law, joined by neuropsychologists Dr. Laura Tagliareni and Dr. David Salsberg of PALS.
"The more you know what's available, the more effectively you can advocate," Sarah said.
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October 17–25 · 60 minutes, no intermission · Ages 4 and up
The kid inventor, the kid scientist, and the kid architect from the popular picture books come to life on stage, opening New Victory's new season. On opening day, October 17, there's an author book signing at 11 am.
New Victory offers these supports at every performance:
Quiet Cozy Zone: a calm space in the lower lobby, with "a live feed of the performance," so kids can step out without missing the show.
Accessibility Table: "fidgets, ear defenders, assisted listening devices, wheelchairs and more."
Sensory Awareness Notes: "a short guide including descriptions of the characters, story and technical elements." Read it ahead of time to know what's coming.
Social narrative: a story to help kids prepare for the visit.
Seating: wheelchair-accessible and companion seats can be chosen when you buy tickets.
Cost: Tickets start at $25, fees included. Members save 35%.
New Victory Theater, 209 W 42nd St, Manhattan · Times Sq–42 St (1/2/3/7/N/Q/R/W/S)
Saturday, October 17, 2026, 12–3 p.m.
Uniquely Me Creative Arts holds its third annual street festival celebrating the disability community. Expect live performances, arts and crafts, haircuts and braiding, and more than 15 disability and community vendors with resources for families.
Larry Scott Blackmon, CEO of The Blackmon Organization, hosts. The festival honors Dr. Sam Blanco, PhD, LBA, BCBA; Cheryelle Cruickshank, executive director of IncludeNYC; and Matthew Tsang, assistant supervisor of community and family services at YAI.
Cost: Free for people with disabilities and their families.
460 Marcus Garvey Blvd. (between MacDonough and Decatur Sts.), Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn
Register at umcanyc.org
Contact: [email protected], 631-881-8716, @umcanyc on Instagram
Sunday, October 18, 2026 · 9:30–11:00 AM · Free, advance registration required (spots limited)
This has sold out, they usually do. It’s worth bookmarking the museum’s site to see when the Special Days are.
For those who’ve never been: A more welcoming museum experience for children with developmental disabilities, including autism, and their families. Families can enjoy transit-themed activities, a Creation Station, search-and-find activities, an interactive puppet show on the subway platform, a quiet room for sensory breaks, and a social narrative emailed to registered families ahead of time.
New York Transit Museum, 99 Schermerhorn St, Brooklyn, NY 11201
Register here SOLD OUT
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Sunday, October 18 · 3:30 – 5:30 pm · Virtual · $15 · Ages 10–24
A hands-on workshop teaching the fundamentals of game design — no experience necessary. Participants walk away with a playable game they built themselves. Registering for this workshop also gets you a $5 discount on Tech Unlimited's Game Design Mini Hackathon.
Enrollment closes: October 15 at 12:00 pm ET.
370 Jay Street, Brooklyn, NY 11201
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Sunday, October 18 · 11 am, 1 pm & 3 pm · $25 · Ages 3–6
A chamber music performance for young children, held in the intimate Rose Studio at Lincoln Center. Every CMS Kids event is a Relaxed Performance — a "concert experience free from judgment," less formal and more supportive of sensory, communication, movement, and learning needs than a standard performance.
Lincoln Center (Rose Studio), W 65th Street & Broadway, New York, NY
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Sunday, October 18 · 10:00 am gather · 11:00 am march · Free
New York's annual Disability Pride Parade marches down Broadway from Madison Square Park to Union Square Park, followed by a block party with performances and community tabling from 12–3 pm. This year's theme: "We Are All in This Together."
Accessibility, confirmed by the organizers: the entire parade route is wheelchair-accessible, with accessible portable toilets, accessible water stations, wheelchair charging stations, and service animal relief areas along the way. ASL interpretation, CART (real-time captioning), and audio/visual descriptions are provided for speeches and remarks.
Not marching? A Community Viewing Area with free folding chairs is available on Broadway, first-come first-served — but you need to register in advance and note it in your registration form.
Parade route: Madison Square Park → Broadway → Union Square Park
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Sunday, October 18 · 12:30 pm · Free
A monthly Sunday Mass specifically for families with special needs children and adults, described by the parish as "a loving and open environment of acceptance and understanding" so families can attend together without concern. Specific prayers are offered for healing, recovery, and caregivers. An ASL interpreter often signs the Mass for hearing-impaired attendees. Hospitality follows each Mass for families to connect with the community.
Holy Trinity Catholic Church, 14-51 143rd Street, Whitestone, NY 11357
Tel: 718-746-7730
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Sunday, October 18 · 9:00–11:00 am · $35
The largest indoor theme park in the Western Hemisphere opens for an inclusive morning: capacity limits, a music-free environment, and support staff who are IBCCES certified and trained. Regular rides and character encounters are open, all ages welcome — but Skyline Scream and the In the Game arcade will not operate during this event due to sensory sensitivities.
At 10:45 am, a performance from GuitarMusicBoy, a 21-year-old electric guitarist based in New York who is autistic himself and uses music as a way to connect and express himself.
American Dream, 1 American Dream Way, East Rutherford, NJ
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Sundays, October 18 – December 14 · 1:30–3:30 pm · Ages 13–18 · $240–$420
Led by music therapist Lloyd H. Miller (MT-BC), participants play guitar, bass, keyboard, drums, and voice together — songwriting, rhythm work, and stage performance opportunities. Offered in English and Español. Sign up by October 26.
Brooklyn Conservatory of Music, 1 Prospect Park West, Brooklyn
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Tuesday, October 20 (diploma options) & Tuesday, October 27 (non-diploma options)
INCLUDEnyc breaks down what going to college can look like for students with disabilities, in two separate sessions — one covering options for students earning a diploma, the other covering non-diploma pathways.
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Friday, October 23 · 4:00 – 6:00 pm · In-person · $15 (or $80 for the full six-event Fun Fridays Bundle) · Ages 14–24
A Halloween-themed social bringing teens and young adults together to connect through movies, games, and collaborative projects — part of Tech Unlimited's Fun Fridays Bundle series and combinable with Creativity Club programming.
Registration closes: October 22 at 12:00 pm ET.
370 Jay Street, Brooklyn, NY 11201
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Six sessions, October 2026 – May 2027 · 4:00 – 6:00 pm each · In-person · $80 for all six (vs. $15 each individually) · Ages 14–24
Access to all six Tech Socials for the 2026–2027 school year — recurring social events bringing teens and young adults together through movies, games, and collaborative projects. Can be combined with Creativity Club through the Fun Fridays Bundle for expanded programming.
Sessions: Oct 23 (Tech or Treat), Nov 20 (Friendsgiving), Dec 11 (Tech the Halls), Feb 12 (Hearts & Crafts), Apr 16 (Mystery Madness), May 21 (May the Fun Be With You).
370 Jay Street, Brooklyn, NY 11201 (assumed — not listed on the event page; same caveat as the Tech or Treat entry)
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Saturday, October 24 · 2:45–4:45 pm · Adults
For parents, too. Many of us learn we're neurodivergent only after our kids are diagnosed. This group offers "a safe, welcoming space" for late-diagnosed neurodivergent adults to "reconnect with who we have always been underneath masking, confusion, and labels."
Come as you are: discussion, co-working, stimming, and arts and crafts. Take part "at your comfort level."
Scent-free: "Please do not wear perfume, cologne, or other scented products while using this space."
Run by Brooklyn Public Library's Inclusive Services.
Cost: Free. Preregistration recommended but not required. Call 718-253-4948 or email [email protected].
Windsor Terrace Library, 160 E 5th St at Fort Hamilton Pkwy, Brooklyn
Saturday, October 24 · 10:30–11:30 am · Free · Craft Room
An adaptive arts and crafts session sponsored by KEEN, pairing youth with disabilities with volunteers for individualized projects — coloring by numbers, friendship bracelets, pom-pom and feather crafts, whatever materials are on hand. Part of BPL's Inclusive Services programming.
Scent-free space: please don't wear perfume, cologne, or other scented products.
Contact: 718-253-4948 or [email protected]
Brooklyn Heights Library (Craft Room), 286 Cadman Plaza West, Brooklyn, NY 11201
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Sunday, October 25 · 9:00–10:30 am · $36–$45
A nocturnal-themed sensory-friendly program: meet a small animal ambassador in the classroom, then explore the zoo's "World of Darkness" exhibit before general crowds arrive. Costumes encouraged. Sensory bags are available for use.
What to expect: the program includes walking outside and through low-light indoor spaces; all paths are wheelchair and stroller accessible. Admission to the day's "Boo at the Zoo" event is included, so families can stay and continue the visit afterward.
The Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd, Bronx, NY
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Sunday, October 25, 2026, 1 p.m. (doors 12:15 p.m.)
TDF is staging an autism-friendly performance of Maybe Happy Ending, which won the Tony for Best Musical. Two retired helper robots in near-future Seoul find each other and test what they believe is possible. The show runs 1 hour 40 minutes with no intermission.
What's different: Lighting and sound are softened. Break areas are staffed by trained professionals throughout the show. Fidgets, headphones, sunglasses, and communication devices are welcome, and earplugs are on hand. TDF posts a logistics guide, character guide, and visual story ahead of time so kids can prepare.
Tickets: $55 balcony, $65 mezzanine, $75 orchestra, sold only through TDF. Join TDF's email list to get the password for the Eventbrite sales page. Limit of nine per order. For larger groups, email [email protected].
Good to know:
Ages 8 and up. No children under 4.
The performance is for people with autism or other developmental disabilities and their families, not the general public.
The show deals with death, memory loss, aging, and loss.
Wheelchair seating is sold out. The main entrance has two steps, with a step-free door to the left. There is no elevator, and the upper-level stairs are steep.
Photos and video are not allowed.
Belasco Theatre, 111 W. 44th St. (between Sixth and Seventh Aves.), Manhattan
More: tdf.org/maybe
Sunday, October 25 · 10:30 am – 6:00 pm · Free, General Admission — drop in anytime, stay as long as you'd like
Lincoln Center's annual campus-wide celebration, part of its Relaxed Performance series — designed to be open to all and "especially welcoming for people with autism, sensory and communication disorders or learning disabilities." A full day of performances, workshops, and drop-in stations across David Geffen Hall, Alice Tully Hall, Lincoln Center Theater, and the outdoor plazas.
A Relaxed Performance, per Lincoln Center's accessibility guide:
Guests can enter and leave the audience space at any time
Vocalizing or moving during a performance is welcome — fellow audience members are asked to observe a no-shushing policy
House lights stay up; the venue is never fully dark
Bright lights, loud noises, or surprise sensory elements are described in advance
A visual guide with clear instructions is shared before the event, in English and Spanish
On-site sensory accommodations:
Chill Out Spaces at David Geffen Hall's Grand Promenade and Alice Tully Hall's Hauser Lounge (2nd floor)
Noise-reducing headphones, earplugs, and fidgets available to borrow at Info Tables
Heads-up on security: entry to David Geffen Hall, Lincoln Center Theater, and Alice Tully Hall goes through an Evolv scanner that "might light up or make noise" — a guard may check bags, and a working security dog may sniff guests or belongings. Worth prepping kids for this beforehand.
Hearing loops in David Geffen Hall's Wu Tsai Theater (telecoil-compatible; loop receivers available), plus ASL interpretation for all Wu Tsai Theater events and live closed captioning via QR code
Accessible/all-gender restrooms, wheelchair-and-companion restrooms, and infant changing tables at every level
A few programming highlights:
Green Feather Puppet Parade — 2:00–2:30 pm AND 4:00–4:30 pm, outdoors at Josie Robertson Plaza. A community puppet parade celebrating the Hudson River, with dancing water flags, music from FunkRust Brass Band, and a giant Atlantic Sturgeon puppet built by the Jim Henson Creature Shop.
Costume Try-On with Lincoln Center Theater — 10:30 am–6:00 pm, drop-in, Hearst Tier 1. Teaching Artists guide kids through playing with costumes and fabric to become "someone (or something) else" — a wizard, a robot, or a character of their own invention.
Plus an instrument petting zoo with the Chamber Music Society, a puppet-making station, Broadway actors reading their own picture books, and dozens of other timed and drop-in activities throughout the day.
Questions, or need an accommodation not listed here? [email protected] or 212-875-5375.
Lincoln Center Plaza, New York, NY 10023 (between Columbus and Amsterdam Avenues, W 63rd–66th Streets)
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Friday, October 30 · Sensory hour 2:30–3:30 pm · Full event 3:30–6:30 pm
Asphalt Green's annual Halloween party takes over its Upper East Side campus with rides, bounce houses, food, games, and a haunted maze. "Everyone comes in costumes," Lauren Madden, director of adaptive programming at Asphalt Green, told Lighthouse. "We have a really big haunted maze. It's actually very scary."
The event has run for about 15 years. The sensory hour is newer. "That's like three years old," Madden said.
Sensory hour, 2:30–3:30 pm: "That is only for families that would benefit from that," Madden said. Music volume starts to rise at 3:15 to ease the shift into the main event.
Inclusive zone: Open during the full event, with specific rides set aside.
Wristbands for lines: Kids who have trouble waiting in long lines can get an Everyone Plays wristband at the Priority Access Zone. Madden compared it to "the sunflower wristband at airports."
Haunted maze: 3:30–6:30 pm. The line closes at 5:30.
Ages: Infants to 18+.
Cost: Free. "You do need to register, but it's completely free," Madden said. Register ahead, especially for the sensory hour.
Litwin Field, Asphalt Green Upper East Side, 555 E 90th St, Manhattan · 86 St (Q)
Sunday, November 1 · 2:00 pm
The Día de los Muertos celebration closes with a parade through the Garden featuring live musicians, puppets — including a larger-than-life Catrina puppet by artist Lucrecia Novoa — and a cumbia dance class. Included with All-Garden Pass admission.
Cost: All-Garden Pass — $39 adult / $35 senior/student / $17 child (weekend pricing); under 2 free.
Bronx River Parkway (Exit 7W) and Fordham Road, Bronx, NY 10458
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NOTE: All 10 Extreme Kids & Crew programs above share the same registration form (sign up by October 26) and the same contact — [email protected], 347-410-6050. Paid programs use a three-tier pricing structure (Explorer/Inventor/Connector) that all provide equal access; OPWDD funding is accepted (contact: Adriana Garcia, [email protected], 631-877-1120).
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